Three Ways to Get Unstuck
Let’s face it. Life has been a little odd lately. Or a lot odd, depending on who you are. I’m about to release my second book during a pandemic. My daughter is about to do a fake graduation, (last year my son didn’t even go to his fake graduation!) and I haven’t been alone in my house for over a year. No wonder we all feel a little creatively stuck.
But I have found some ways to get unstuck lately. And here are three I’d like to share with you.
Change your narrative
Thoughts are powerful. If we’re telling ourselves it’s impossible to write with a houseful of people our brains will believe it. If we tell ourselves we can’t write in total isolation, we will believe it. Either way we’re stuck. Every morning I write thoughts I’d like to sear into my brain, thoughts like:
Writing comes easily when my house is full of people.
I write exceptional books because of interruptions.
I’m filled with ideas and creativity.
Being more metacognitive has transformed my ability to keep writing until I get the job done.
Ask yourself: How is this experience perfect for me? You’ll be surprised what you will come up with when you ask yourself this question. Here are just a few reasons why the pandemic has been perfect for me.
- I’ve slowed down.
- I’ve spent more quality time with my family.
- I’ve finally finished my YA novel and gotten it to beta readers.
- I’ve started a new podcast, Picture Book Look!
- I’ve pivoted from therapizing to life coaching creatives.
I’m not sure any of these things would have happened without the pandemic.
Give yourself permission to write.
Put your phone on airplane mode, close up social media, perhaps put your children or spouse in front of a movie. Set a timer for 5 minutes. And write. No matter how asinine your words seem, no matter how silly or terrible—write them down. Some days, I’ve written things like:
My feet are cold.
How much longer do I have?
Why can’t I think of anything to write?
Writing actual words is the only way to truly get unstuck. Go ahead, do it now. Give yourself permission to ignore the outside world, to fill your head with dreams…
and write.
Kirsti Call co-hosts the PICTURE BOOK LOOK podcast and co-runs ReFoReMo. She’s a critique ninja and elf for 12 x 12, a blogger for Writers’ Rumpus, and a Rate Your Story judge. She’s judged the CYBILS award for fiction picture books since 2015. Kirsti is a therapist trained life coach for creatives. Her picture book, MOOTILDA’S BAD MOOD (Little Bee) moooved onto shelves last fall. COW SAYS MEOW (HMH) and COLD TURKEY (Little Brown) release in 2021. Kirsti is represented by Emma Sector at Prospect Agency.
COW SAYS MEOW’S virtual book launch is hosted by UNLIKELY STORY on March 16th.
Kirsti is offering one 12 x 12 member a copy of COW SAYS MEOW and stickers at the March 2021 check-in. Go get your draft written!
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This pandemic certainly has changed our ways of doing things. Your post is helping push through this feeling of being in a time warp. Time to push through and keep going. Just write.
Hooray!
Well, I’ve been homebound for 15 years, so the pandemic hasn’t been much different for me! But always interesting to hear how it’s affecting you healthies. 🙂
Oops, didn’t mean to make that a reply to anyone else’s comment specifically!
Kristi this post has been uber helpful.
I am forever stuck and the time that passes lamenting over being stuck so much could have been achieved that’s why I really like 12×12 as our accountability partners and creating an environment to support. each other. This article has been jazzed for my next draft in April.
Thank you, Kirsti! Great advice for getting unstuck and for looking at our situation in a whole new light.
You’re very welcome!
Kirsti,
Congratulations on your podcast and upcoming book! It sounds like the struggle to be creative during the pandemic/shelter-in-place of last year has expanded your vision of yourself. That’s always a plus. You’re spot on that writing or saying positive statements will help break writer’s block and inspire us to keep persevering. I’ve been writing, “webinaring,” participating in conferences/online courses, joining/hosting critique groups, and more for three years. There are times when I reread my heartfelt manuscript after 12 revisions and a couple rejections, and think, “Maybe I’m not good enough to be published. Maybe how I write and what stories I have to tell don’t resonate with the editors/agents.” Other times, I feel like my nose is pressed onto a window and I’m staring inside at all the authors/illustrators celebrating their soon-to-be published books. They’re dancing, singing, and tossing confetti along with wine. I see their joy and sigh. I’m ready to erase those self-doubting thoughts and images. Thank you for reminding me to keep believing even when it seems impossible. Sending you energy and inspiration for your next tale to tell…
Thanks for your thoughtful response, Marsha. Keep believing! I had da 7 year dry spell, but now things are going pretty well!
Kristi, Thank you for your suggestions, and all that you do. I missed waking up this morning to a new list of amazing mentor texts. Thank you for your work on ReFoReMo. Congratulations on your new book!
Thank you for all you do for writers. Loved reforemo. Congratulations on your new book.
Great insight thank you! Most of the pandemic really didn’t affect my writing as I’m home anyway….until I caught the virus. I’m so very grateful I recovered, but the fatigue lasted a long time, delaying lots of projects, writing and otherwise
Kirsti, First off, love the podcast. I’ve really enjoyed listening to it. Your second tip, in particular, is one I’m going to put on a post-it note and stick on my desk. Any mind tricks that help us weather the highs and lows of this business are worth trying! Thanks so much for all you do for kid lit and congrats on the many new books. You definitely have a knack for finding great titles! I can’t wait to read them all.
Ooooh I’m so glad you like the podcast! And I’m glad you like my titless. Hooray!
Thank you for sharing.
Great advice, Kirsti! I especially love your positivity!
Wonderful advice, Kristi! Thanks for sharing. Congrats on your books and your podcast!
Thank you, Marci!
Aww thank you!
Loved this post, Kirsti! Thank you for all these great suggestions, and congratulations on your new book! 🙂
Moo-chas gracias!
Congratulations on your new book, Kristi. Thanks for organizing ReFoReMo. Your energy and enthusiasm is impressive and so productive. We all benefit from it. Thanks again.
Thank you! I’m glad you’re enjoying ReFoReMo!
The pandemic has definitely changed things and it took me a long time to get unstuck. But I have been able to take advantage of some of the good things the pandemic brought to accomplish some goals. For example, I could afford to take a writing course and got to work on a chapter book I had been putting off. Thanks for giving us some other ways to help us get unstuck. Congrats on your new books and your podcast. I love listening!
Ooooh thank you! I’m so glad you’re making traction on a chapter book!
Congratulations Kristi, your suggestions are helpful. Thanks!
Give yourself permission to write! Such great advice as sometimes it can be much easier to tackle our other list of to-dos.
Thanks for this helpful post, Kirsti! You’re so right about believing the things we tell ourselves. I love Mootilda, so I’m looking forward to your new book! Congrats!
Moo-chas gracias, I’m so glad you love Mootilda!
I’m going to go write NOW! Thanks for the inspiration. Also congrats on your new book! it looks amazing.
Thank you, Kristi, for these three great reminders!!! They came at the perfect time! I love Moothilda’s Bad Mood and look forward to your new book! Congratulations and thank you for all that you are contributing to the kid lit community!
I’m soooo glad you love Mootilda! Moo-chas gracias!
Kristi, Thank you for an inspiring post! Having the right mindset is half the battle – and I love having permission to write drivel on the way to writing not-drivel!
And by Kristi, I meant Kirsti. So sorry!
Yay!
Thanks for sharing. It really is about getting some words down. I haven’t been anywhere near as productive as you during this past year, but recently, I’m back to getting words written — and that feels wonderful!
Writing does feel wonderful, doesn’t it?
Kirsti, I LOVE your podcast!!!! Congrats and THANK YOU (and Kim) for starting it! I love how each episode is super short yet crammed packed with such awesome insights from creators. I listen to it as I’m getting dressed in the morning and I feel like I”ve already accomplished something! ALSO, my favorite part is when you ask creators at the end: “When someone reads your book, what do you hope readers feel or learn?” I’ve been using this question when I’m starting in on a new idea, or if I’m struggling with a revision, or I’ll ask it of my CPs when I’m critiquing. So many times I’ll have a cute idea or the start of something, but then I sit back and think: But what do I want readers to FEEL after they read this? What is the take-away here? It REALLY helps me focus in on WHY I’m writing a particular story. So, THANK YOU!!! (I know my comment has nothing to do with your post, but oh well! LOL)
You made my day, Rebecca!
Such great tips that even I can employ! Thanks, Kristi!
Our brain is such a powerful thing, huh? I’m always looking for new ways to trick it into doing what I want it to do. Hmm…maybe there’s a children’s book in there somewhere.
Thank you for your insight! I love Mootilda’s Bad Mood and I’m sure your latest book will be just as fun.
Ohhh Ellen, thank you!
Thanks Kirsti,
I have been working with the REFOREMO this morning and I saw that you run another site as well. You are a busy lady writer. Good luck with all your new book ideas. Excited to check out Picture Book Look, too.
Yipppeee! I’m glad you’ll check out the podcast. It’s a lot of fun!
I love that you write “my feet are cold”! My room is the cokdest in the house year around so that line may be typed the way Jack Nicholson types in The Shining.
What a great post, Kristi! Thanks for your inspiration and for being an inspiration, but most of all for your genuine gift for kindness and encouragement! Can’t wait to hear more from your coaching journey!
Thank you, Amy! <3
What great advice, Kirsti! I think I am going to set aside what I was planning to do right now and spend 5 minutes writing before I get back to what I’d planned!
Perfect!
Great ideas for getting unstuck! This has been a tough year for us all. My entire critique group is struggling with being creative. Changing our narrative is such a powerful tool! Thank you for this upbeat post. I will be listening to the podcast, for sure.
I’m so glad!!!
Thanks for the great tips, Kirsti! I love your advice of giving yourself permission to write. I think I am often too hard on myself and want to make everything good when sometimes that’s just unrealistic. I need to remember your words of encouragement. BTW- I just reread Mootilda’s Bad Mood this morning for ReFoReMo and it put a big smile on my face. Looking forward to reading your new titles!
Oh hooray!!!
I’m so happy you love mootilda!!!
Definitely need to try those positive ways of looking at things … Note to self … I do my best work when I’ve only got 30 minutes free! Best of luck with the new book and thank you for your post to help us unstick!
Opposites! Counterintuitive thinking! Mix-it-up and change-ups are tried and true. I’m on it! Thank you for your wisdom.
woooo hoooo!
Kristi,
Thank you for the suggestions. Darn if those tiny annoyances aren’t annoying. I like taking them and turning them into positive affirmations.
So true.
I’ve been working on changing my narrative and to put out more positive things so I can attract more positive (in all areas of my life). Thank you for the reminder. I bookmarked your podcast page so I can listen to those. Thanks for sharing, Kirsti!
Yipppee!
I’m so happy to hear this!
I love your approach of shifting your mindset. This past year, there are so many excuses. But, it’s also become our reality and we have to learn how to live in it. I can’t wait to check out your podcast! Thanks for the post!
I”m glad you’ll check out the podcast! It’s been so much fun!
My friend, you have always been an inspiration to me and I’m so over-the-moooon happy for all of your success. Thank you for these wonderful tips and for reminding me that I am in control of my own narrative…needed that one today. xo
You are meow-velous in every way!
You are moovelous in every way! So thankful for the many ways we’ve creatively partnered over the years. Your literary success makes me so happy!
You’re the cat’s meow!
I loved this. I could almost hear your voice as I read it!
Ha! thank you Hilary!
Hooray for getting unstuck!
Haha, I LOVE this advice. It’s so hard to be thrown out of our routines, and so important to do what we can to counteract the craziness that comes with that. I’m definitely going to try telling my brain what I want it to be capable of! Thank you for sharing your process : )
Thank you for the pep-type. I find that I am always giving my time to help others be better and cutting myself short. I like, just type a single line. That may be all the time I have.
Great post, Kirsti. Thanks for the helpful tips. I especially like your first point, because even when we don’t have a pandemic, the power of our thoughts can really affect things.
Hi Kirsti,
Great post-your energy and enthusiasm are contagious. I will ‘LOOK’ for your podcast and your new books- they sound like loads of fun! Thank you for the post!
Thank you for your words. When life gives you lemons, you squeeze them and make a…. pound cake (sorry, my sweet tooth doesn’t allow me to say lemonade 🙂 )
Kirsti, thank you for giving us very practical ways to get unstuck. Keeping a thanksgiving journal and being more intentional to set aside a few minutes each day to write have been two strategies that have worked for me.
Your enthusiasm, dedication and smile are inspirational. Congratulations on the publication of several picture books and the success of ReFoReMo and your new podcast. I love participating in ReFoReMo and definitely will check out your podcast soon.
So glad you accomplished so much during the pandemic!
Thanks for the perspective shift! It’s so wonderful to see you focus on gratitude and share the positives you noticed. The pandemic has really opened up avenues for me too. I’m so so grateful. It does get a little over-whelming but focusing on small steps has surely helped me thrive
Thank you for a wonderful post, Kirsti! Positive thinking is so important in all aspects of life. I’ve been so stressed with my day time job lately (which affects my writing) and have allowed negative thoughts about my abilities creep in. Your advice is so timely! 🙂
Hi Kirsty,
Thank you for sharing. Good luck on your releases. I look forward to finding them on the shelves. You are an inspiration. I don’t know how you manage to do it all 🙂
Thanks, Kirstine, for the good advice! You’ve reminded me of the importance of self talk.
Five minutes to just put words, no matter how bad, on “paper” – surely I could handle that.
Five minutes a day is a great way to create a habit. Thank you, Kirsti, for this inspirational post and all the many ways you help the kidlit community.
This is awesome encouragement! I appreciate the prompts! Thank you, Kirsti.
This is awesome encouragement! I appreciate the prompts to break the Stuckness we find ourselves in! Thank you, Kirsti.
Thank you for this motivating post, Kirsti! The struggle is real, but you have great suggestions to push through it!
Hi Kirsti. Thanks for the uplifting post. Writing in spite of ___________(fill in the blank) is always an issue. Your suggestions apply when whatever stands in your way. I also plan to check out your podcast.
I hope you enjoy the podcast!
The “just write” thing has really worked for me this year. I’m very slow to eek out a first draft when I develop them with intention, but if I free write, I find myself developing new ideas or solving manuscript problems that I wasn’t even thinking about. Thanks for the great post.
Kirsti, congratulations on your latest, Cow Says Meow. And thank you, thank you, thank you for saying out loud that the pandemic had been, okay, good in some ways. By March 2020, I was dishevelled and lost. Being a social justice journalist wasn’t easy in that situation. By September, however, I had steadied myself and one reason was because I took picture book writing (and reading) seriously. I could finally put my heart into something I genuinely enjoy. That happened because everything slowed down, and because we resorted to self-care, guilt-free. Reading this post gave me the strength to acknowledge that the pandemic certainly did some good (many business folks told me so too, but they are a different group). Will catch up on the podcast and the launch. Best wishes.
Congratulations on all of your success and thanks for the encouraging post, Kirsti!
Thank you for tips on getting unstuck. “Cow Says Meow” sounds fun! Can’t wait to check it out.
Thank you Kristi for the post. I will be checking out your podcast!
Yes! Yes! Yes! I love this. Just a short note or two is all you might need to get sorted. It has been difficult to stay focused, I appreciate knowing others are feeling the same!
Thank you so much for this inspiringly perfect-pandemic advice!
Thanks for the great post, Kristi! I laughed out loud at “Writing comes easily when my house is full of people.” So needed! Thanks for the inspiration and nudge. Congrats on your upcoming books!
What perfect timing for this message. Thank you, Kirsti, for the encouragement to prioritize writing. I will be practicing this positive self-messaging with writing and more! Good luck with both of your 2021 releases.
Because of the pandemic, I discovered the kidlit community on Twitter, which has been a GIFT. And thanks for the reminder to JUST WRITE. Even for only five minutes. Even five minute’s worth of writing can be revised. A blank page simply cannot be.
We just read Mootilda’s Bad Mood yesterday for ReFoReMo and I LOVED it (as did my very grumpy three-year-old)! We can’t wait to check out your new book and your podcast! Thanks 🙂
That makes my day, Anna!
Thanks for the great advice! Congrats on Cow Says Meow!
Kirsti, thank you for this post. Your smile alone is therapeutic. Add in your wise words and voila!
Aww, you’re the sweetest!
Kristi,
You are on a roll with those cows. Yes self talk is so powerful. I tell myself that I will be published each day that I walk steps toward it. I can feel it. I know it’s coming . i just don’t know when and I’m ok with that. I’m enjoying the journey and my husband is supportive.
Thank you for the inspiration and the support.
Fun to see you here, Sue!
Terrific advice, thank you! I’m going to work on having more positive thoughts as I write.
One thing the pandemic has allowed me is butt-in-chair time. Along with 12X12, I have written so many new manuscripts and revised even more. I miss things, and things with people I love, but I’m writing! And, my butt is proof!😉🙃🙂
haha!
Thank you for your encouraging, and inspiring, post. 🙂
Congrats, Kirsti, on your upcoming books and new podcast (which I just subscribed to!) Sounds like you’ve managed to make the most of this odd year. My kids told me I was made for “the pandemic life” when quarantine first hit. “You don’t have to make excuses to stay home and read and write all day!” We can all find silver linings if we look hard enough. I like your suggestion of writing them down. Thanks!
Fantastic!
Thanks for sharing your inspiration! You are one busy lady! Busy is good! I love Mootilda! I can’t wait to read your new books! Congrats!
ohhh I’m glad you like Mootilda! Moo-ray!
Thoughts are so powerful! Thank you for sharing how you’ve changed yours. Reframing continues to be an important approach to maintaining creativity during the pandemic and through other challenges. (On a totally different topic–is that your rainbow keyboard? Very cool! I’ve never seen one. I’m assuming you have to buy it that way and can’t turn a plain keyboard into a rainbow.)
The rainbow is actually a keyboard cover, so you can buy one on amazon 🙂
Great post! I know, sometimes you just have to sit down and write. Actual words. And take notes. And look at old notes. It’s the old behind in the chair method. 2020 gave us lots of opportunities to grow in different and unexpected ways. Wow. This creative is ready to move on to more adventures in 2021. Congrats on your successful endeavors! (I also need to go read my mentor books for ReFoReMo!)
Thank you! These are great tips… going to airplane mode after this and will just write, even if it’s “what shall I write?…” And yes, many opportunities because of being home more… like finding my agent 🙂 So I’m humbly counting my blessings while wiping away tears from the hurt and loss all around me. It’s such an odd dichotomy. Finally, I’ve subscribed to your podcast and looking forward to your new book launch!! YAY!!
I’m so glad you subscribed to the podcast and went to the book launch! Hooray!
I LOVE THESE SUGGESTIONS! Thank you!
Thanks for your encouraging and positive words, Kirsti! I think we all need to throw out the excuses that so quickly stop us from writing.
Kirsti, your tips and suggestions are so appreciated. The pandemic has created such an unusual environment. I struggle some days and keep the creative flow going on other days 🙂 Right now, ReFoReMo has me on my toes. Thank you for all you do for the amazing kid lit community.
Thank you, Kirsti – great advice! I think I will start using “write actual words” as a mantra. That genuinely seems like a perfect way to make things happen on days we feel stuck.
Great post and looking forward to the Cow Says Meow Launch Event! xx
Great advice to change our narrative about the current situation. 🙂
I am an exceptional writer! Thank you. Sometimes we have to be our own cheerleaders. And have to love your new title, Cow Says Meow! Without opening the book, little ones will say, “no, cow say Moooooooo!”
I love this idea of changing your mindset and repeating positive affirmations until our brains believe them! I used to think I needed the “perfect” setting to write (perfect desk set up, perfect view – lovely but not too distracting, perfect snack/drink, perfect balance of noise/silence) and then realized I was just stalling and wasting time! I can find time even if it’s just scribbling something down quickly while my brain thinks of it at work and focusing on it later. Or finding 15 minutes to write while cartoons are on or during nap time (if I’m not napping myself).
You’re so right – just write! Even if it’s terrible you’re making progress. Plus you’re getting all the junk out first. It’s like cleaning out old pipes right? Gotta get the icky, gunky water out first before things can start flowing! 🙂
Your article really MOOoved me! Congratulations on all that you have accomplished (and discovered) during the pandemic. Thank you for being so honest!
Thanks so much Kirsti! Awesome tips – off to try some metacognition! I AM a wonderful writer! I CAN do this!
After reading this I decided to stop rewriting a manuscript that I felt was as far as I could take it until I get more feedback…so decided to start something new. Quieted the house and my mind and an idea just popped up out of nowhere! Thanks !
Oh, that’s moooovelous!
Congrats on your upcoming book. It is inspiring to see how you keep going, and are succeeding!
I think positive affirmations and just making yourself sit down to write are excellent pieces of advice right now, at least for me. I also have two kids (though mine are 5 and 7). I think it’s easy for creativity to be shut down during times of stress and distraction, but if we tell ourselves we can do it and that’s it’s even good for us to do it, and then take it a step further — more easy to write now than ever, we can really show resilience and push through creatively. I’ve never thought about telling myself that the obstacles are what make me better, but isn’t that just the truth about everything in life? The challenges are what make us who we are, why would that be any different from the act of writing? Brilliant. Thank you for sharing. I will be writing some affirmations to post above my computer and I will sit down to write, even if it’s just silliness.
I’m so glad to hear this! Moovelous!
Kirsti, thanks for all you do for the #kidlit community and for all your great books that will be enjoyed by kids and families. Grateful we have traveled this crazy path together.
Love you, Carol!
Thanks for the tips! I look forward to checking out your books and podcast.
Thank you, Kirsti, for a thought-provoking article. I think–no, I know–that I need to give myself permission to write and permission to let some other things go that always seem to get in the way.
Your post is a timely reminder and so appreciated by this writer.
Thank you Kristi, for the great post — and congrats on your upcoming books! As a new writer buried in self-doubt and guilt when taking the time to write, your words struck a deep chord. Thank you for the much needed inspiration!
Great post. I love the inspiration to change my narrative. I think that’s especially important since I’m home with the kids all day. : )
This article could not have come at a better time! I have felt the same way, and at times found myself getting frustrated and not able to focus with all the noise in my home. But I have found ways to manage, and like you have still accomplished quite a lot in the process. For that we should all be proud of ourselves! Thanks for writing this and will use these tips this week 🙂
This article could not have come at a better time! I have felt the same way, and at times found myself getting frustrated and not able to focus with all the noise in my home. But I have found ways to manage, and like you have still accomplished quite a lot in the process. For that we should all be proud of ourselves! Will definitely use these tips!
I have felt the same way, and at times found myself getting frustrated and not able to focus with all the noise in my home. But I have found ways to manage, and like you have still accomplished quite a lot in the process. For that we should all be proud of ourselves! Will definitely use these tips!
KIrsti, thank you so much for this perspective. I’ve been feeling stuck this month, and this is really helpful advice. I’m going to carry it forward with me into April, and I look forward to writing!
Kirsti,
Thank you so much for the ideas and insights. I am trying to give myself the grace to do what I can and change the narrative that holds me back! Look forward to your book!
Kirsti, You remind us that we’re all experiencing something uniquely similar, yet uniquely different! Thank you for the writing encouragement! Can’t wait to get my hands on my own copy of Cow Says Meow!
Thanks for the inspirational post. I really needed that today! I feel like with the pandemic things should have slowed down, but I feel busier than before. Congratulations on the new book. It looks so fun!
Love this: “Ask yourself: How is this experience perfect for me?” So good.
Congrats on your latest book! And I need to check out your podcast.
I love the idea of writing affirmations in the morning! The pandemic has had a lot of positive effects on my writing as well – mainly because I had time and mental space to commit to working on it. In fact, I had a major deadline last July (a book for teachers) and I don’t know that I would have met it otherwise…
Thank you for your inspiration and Congratulations on your latest book!
This is great. And I loved hearing your stories a couple Sunday’s ago.
Great ideas for keeping those creative juices flowing!
Absolutely brilliant! As a librarian I long for good read alouds – this is one!
Thank you so much for sharing what you have been able to accomplish during the pandemic! It’s impressive! Rephrasing negative situations into the potential they hold was really great advice. I remember when I finally had a “weekend writing getaway” a couple years ago. And I barely accomplished anything. Meanwhile, weeks I’m busiest at work I seemed to be more inspired to write. So it’s not the physical location, it’s our mindset. Great post!
Great post! I didn’t know you had a podcast. Now I want to check it out!
Thanks for the tips to get yourself out of the non-productive black hole and back on a creative track. I’ll have to try re-phrasing my whiny “I’m not cuz…” narrative “To I can and I am cuz…!”
I’ll have to try re-phrasing my whiny “I’m not cuz…” narrative “To I can and I am cuz…!”
Thank you so much for your ideas for counteracting writers’ block. I like the idea of writing down anything that comes to mind in a five minute period. I will try that.
Congrats Kirsti! Adding this to my list!
Repeating powerful & loving phrases is so important! Thanks for that important reminder, Kirsti!
The pandemic did change things for me. I am writing more than before since I’ve been home more than before. BTW, I loved your book, “Cow Says Meow.” Great post!
I enjoyed reading about this positive outlook on writing in the pandemic. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for your suggestions!
Thanks for your comments. Because of the pandemic, I switched gears to picture books! But I cannot stand all the noise in my house, unlike you. #TryingToBlockFamilyMembersFromTalking
I don’t know, if you ask me, Kirsti, after reading your bio, you are a pretty busy person with or without a houseful of people. I am throughly impressed! Your article was filled with inspiration and permission to just “BE”. Thank you! And, many congratulations on all your success!
I love this idea of metacognition. I’ve definitely been given some gifts in the pandemic, from figuring out what conditions I CAN write in and setting them up, to all kinds of classes and conferences that I would otherwise not be able to afford/travel to being online and recorded.
Thank you Kristi. I needed to read these words, especially these ones: “Writing comes easily when my house is full of people.” That is the BEST affirmation ever for this introverted creative right here. Me Time is in short supply around here… which is exactly why I write and draw late at night, and then feel tired all the time. But I’m still doing it! Thanks for your encouragement!
Thank you, Kristi! Your post is perfect. I will remember to ask myself, “How is this experience perfect for me?”, “Is my inner-narrative a positive one” and “Can I just knock out 5 minutes of writing?” So much wisdom here. Thank you!
This is great advice! I have been working on what filters through my mind lately. I will have to add a few of these mantras into my meditation.
Good luck with your podcast!
Thanks, Kirsti. Your positive outlook and thoughtful suggestions are very helpful! Congratulations on both of your book releases! You give so much back to the kidlit community and I appreciate it!
Love the change your narrative tip & “I write exceptional books because of interruptions” made me laugh so hard, it’s beautiful! Thank you Kristi!
Great suggestions. It has been a tough year to write. I set aside all my longer manuscripts and focused on picture books that can be worked on in smaller bits of time during my hectic schedule with everyone in the house.
I love love your affirmations. I’ve been wasting my time lately and needed to hear this. The fake graduations made me sad but then look on the bright side- they graduated!! Thank you for your very comforting post.
Kirsti, such sage advice! And your affirmations are so doable.
A rough time for seniors and these great books help put a smile on everyone’s faces. A great read for a great-grandson age 31/2.
I love the suggestion to change the narrative and ask ourselves “how is this situation perfect for me?” Like a gratitude journal of thoughts to get us in a writerly head space. Thanks, Kirsti!
Your words made me realize that when I want to write, I also start thinking of chores that await me. That must be why I need to give myself permission to write!!! Also, I should make a very calming setting so that I feel like sitting a while!! Thanks !!!
Thank you, Kristi! Sometimes I am my worst enemy! Thank you for the great strategies to get writing again!
Well, that was like therapy for me. Thank you for the reminders!
I 100% agree. “Writing actual words is the only way to truly get unstuck.” During this last year, sometimes I would have a hard time writing creatively, so I would write more structured things for my Instagram posts, and just forcing myself to write anything helped me be able to transition to writing creatively again.
So excited and happy for you, my dear friend!
You have been busy and inspiring! Thank you!
Wow! I needed to read this today! Thanks for the great tips! 🙂
I had totally missed your podcast–super excited to listen to it. And thanks for the reminder that it is possible to reframe the way we see our worlds. 🙂
Excellent advice, Kristi, and congrats on all you’ve accomplished through the pandemic! It’s been challenging for sure, but I’ve seen a lot of blessings as well.
Thanks for sharing!
This is great advice for writing, or other endeavors, too! Thanks!
Thank you for your helpful suggestions. Always chuckle over your sense of humor in your stories, and in these suggestions. We should all look for the humor in life.
Thank you for your encouraging post. I’ve been trying to tell myself, “It’s okay when things don’t work out. You’re still learning!” Trying to embrace the learning process more and enjoy it instead of hoping more will come. Your books are adorable. My kids love “Matilda’s Bad Mood.”
Thanks for the tips!
Yes, this so true! It is often helpful to re-frame our thinking, and keep gratitude in mind in all that we encounter. Something positive from the pandemic for me is that I’m now home on weekends all the time. No full-day trips to amusement parks or zoos with the kids, so I’ve finally had a chance to start writing. There’s my pandemic silver lining! Thanks!
Yes! I need to do this!
This is very clever and encouraging (I have several crazy barn animals stories in the works :o) The illustrations are darling too!
Congratulations, this is very exciting :o)
Kelly Perkins
Thanks for this. We’ve all had to find new ways of navigating this new world, and our relationship with it.
LP
Good advice!
I have been very stuck lately, so this post was empowering and helpful. Thank you!
Kirsti, those are three great suggestions. Now I need to try to implement them. Congrats on your latest book!
Self talk matters a lot! Thanks for sharing your techniques for getting unstuck. I’d stay and talk but I have to get to work. lol
Inspiring advice and such a bubbly personality.
Inspiring advice and such a a clever way to get unstuck
I like how you spin a complaint into a positive message! Affirmations work!
Great inspiration and totally believe in word affiration! Thanks!
Here’s to being metacognitive! And the pandemic has allowed me to write every day; in fact, I’m a mite worried about what going back to an office will be like.
What a great mindset! Thank you for the inspiration! Congratulations on your new book!
Wow, Kirsti! From all your activities listed in your bio, it sure doesn’t sound like you’ve been languishing! This speaks volumes about the effectiveness of your methods. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you, Kirsti, for helping us to focus on the positive. During the pandemic, life has slowed down and has made so many writing opportunities available to me that I wouldn’t have had otherwise. The world became much smaller.
One tip that has been helping me recently is to reflect on how we are all in this ‘thing’ (waves hands around) together, even if many of us feel more alone than ever. When you see people carrying about their business as if nothing has changed for them, know that it’s likely just a facade–what they are choosing to tell/show of themselves to get through the same crazy time you are trying to get through. I wish everyone health and strength. Thank you for the tips on staying inspired. 🙂
Kristi, I am loving your podcast and congrats on Cow Says Meow. And I love your permission to write. Sometimes, all I can write is upcoming blog posts, but I am writing. Thanks.
It’s good to look on the positive side. It’s good to have writer friends, especially when we can’t socialize in person. So many great webinars.
I have found that the time home during the pandemic has allowed me to have the time to write, especially in the mornings when I get up before my partner. While he sleeps in and after the animals have been satiated with their morning meal becomes my time. Before we were forced to slow down and stay at home I never had much time. Thank you for putting on paper your wonderful ideas for us,
I love the power of positive thinking!
Great post! It’s so important to intentionally turn negative thoughts into positive ones. Thanks!
Thank you, Kirsti. I love the way you have added a touch of humor to your very practical suggestions for the dilemma of being “stuck”. And congratulations on so many big accomplishments in what has been a difficult year!
Congratulations on your new book! Can’t wait to read it.
Can’t wait to read this! I hope one day I do as well.
Great coaching tips for those blank times. Thanks for sharing them. I love the title of your new book!
Congratulations!
I love this so much. I’ve been doing a lot of this thanks to THE ARTIST’S WAY and it’s helped enormously! Thank you for this uplifting post!
Thank you for the words of affirmation, Kirsti. It’s all we can do some days to simply put one foot in front of the other. Or write words on a page like “My feet are cold.” I appreciate hearing such candor from a successful author. Thank you.
Congratulations on your new book!
This is great post highlighting mind over matter and the poser of positivity on your writing life. Thank you for sharing!
Kristi, thank you for your tips on positive affirmations. I can also appreciate and relate trying to write in a busy house : ). Congratulations on your book! It sounds like you juggle quite a bit and try to maintain balance. Very admirable!
I love these ideas! Thanks for sharing and congratulations on your new book!
Kirsti,
I have a copy of Cow says Meow. Great word play. And I really enjoyed your book launch of Mootilda’s bad MOOD at the Writing Barn.
Congrats on all you’ve accomplished this year.
Pat
I love your idea of writing encouraging notes to yourself…I am going to try this! Congratulations on all your wonderful books!
I love this advice. Thank you. I need to think more positively. I haven’t seen family or friends or coworkers in well over a year, but some good has come out of this time. I’ve spent more time writing/revising, putting myself out there in the online writing community, and working out. I finally learned how to cook at 43! (In my defense, I’m a New Yorker LOL) I’m going to take your advice. And congrats on the podcast! I’m looking forward to listening to it once I figure out how to listen to podcasts!
Such great advice on how to reframe and accept the imperfect circumstances, rather than waiting for the perfect writing environment.
I love your podcast!! I’ve discovered so many great books through it and learned a lot about the industry and writing PBs. I love these ideas you’ve shared for getting unstuck. Also, congrats to your kids for their graduations. Sorry they had to be fake ceremonies 🙁 But celebrating all the good that’s come out anyway!
Congratulation Kirsti on the new book and the completion of yet another amazing ReFoReMo! And love your tips on how to get unstuck! Moochas gracias!
The pandemic has allowed me the time to focus on my writing but getting used to having the freedom to write took me a while. Always tapping myself on the shoulder to use time wisely. Thank you.
Love the idea of writing an alternate truth to make it a reality! “I write better with distractions!” Heck yeah, I do now!!
Great post! Sometimes doing the simplest things helps to jumpstart the writing process- you are right! Just start writing! Anything. The more we can be consistent with doing this, the more new words will come. Thanks, Kirsti! PS- Mootilda’s Bad Mood is so much fun! I can totally picture it as a cartoon on tv!
This is great! I’m using the changing my narrative technique in other areas of my life––I need to use it in writing too! Thanks, Kirsti!
Thank you for the great advice Kirsti!
I should have read this at the beginning of the month. But, reading it now will move me forward in the month of April.
Excellent reframe- especially during these tough times
Words are so powerful. Thank you for the reminder. This is the first 12×12 comment I’ve made since I got a website – which says my name and then “writer.” I’m starting to believe it. Thanks again and congratulations on your book.
Great tips, Kirsti ! I try to focus on gratitude when I get down. I’m grateful my house is quiet- even though I get lonely and I get discouraged from unemployment. I’ve had amazing creative flow as it’s a bit of a refuge in the craziness.
I certainly needed to change my narrative today! I’ve copy/pasted those phrases to remind me when imposter syndrome sets in! I’ve made it a routine to write 5 min daily. It helps so much right now. I can see the happy things that have come from
Pandemic days but it’s also been an emotional week!
I love your ways to get unstuck because it happens to all of us whether it’s due to the pandemic effects or any other issues we deal with in life. I can see more positives than negatives and I continue to write as often and as much as I can.
Thank you!
I love the idea of a change in how we look at things.
Great advice! I am struggling to find the time to write with a newborn and three older kids. But even five minutes can be productive if you eliminate distractions!
Great advice. Thank you for the post. This month I finally felt I could write again.
Terrific. And I’m so glad your pivots have been fruitful.
Kirsti, you certainly have been busy! Thanks for the advice and reforemo 2021.
For some of us, even a pandemic has a silver lining – more time to write!
Changing the narrative in your mind is so powerful, as well as calling out the gifts you receive during trying times. I truly love your perspective. Good luck with this new adventure and I am calling out for you, many more to come!
Congratulations on each of your writing and coaching accomplishments. Your article is so relevant and is filled with many helpful suggestions to keep the creative juices flowing. I love the titles of your books…such fun.
There has been a benefit to the pandemic, the slowing down.
Thank you for this inspiring post. Yes 2020 has been a one in a million year in so many ways. Although it didn’t really make much difference to my hubby and I and the fact we are lucky enough to live in New Zealand. Time to get back in the seat and get those creative juices flowing again. 🙂
Such a timely post! Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us!
Thank you for these important reminders! And congrats on your book releases this year. 🙂
Congrats, Kirsti, on all of your success! Love your books and your podcast!
Thanks for those ideas. Definitely needed! I love that you’re appearing at The Unlikely Story. I did an event there years ago. Love that store!
Kristi, you have spoken for so many of us, and I like the way you have looked for the positives. Keep up the good work. Write on!
This book looks amazing! Congrats, Kristi! My go-to writing hack during the pandemic has been giving my kids Saturday (and Sunday) morning cartoons. LOL.
These are great suggestions for getting “unstuck”! Thank you 🙂
Yes! This is what we all need as a reminder that everyone gets stuck, and there are ways to figure it out. 🙂
I needed to read this today! Thanks for sharing!
“I write exceptional books because of interruptions” HA! That’s going to be a difficult one for my brain to accept, but I’ll write it everyday since it makes me chuckle. Bring on the interruptions. Thanks, Kirsti.
What a positive spin on interruptions! Such a great way to look at things during these crazy times!
I think the point about our inner narratives is such an important one… it can be easy to forget how much power those voices in our heads start to have over us if we let them run on repeat, so consciously making sure we are sending ourselves the right message is crucial!
Thanks for the helpful, positive advice on getting unstuck. Congratulations on your book releases!
Great words of encouragement! Thanks.
Fill your head with dreams . . . and write. I love that! Thank you, Kirsti.
Thanks, Kirsti, for the tips on changing the narrative re: pandemic life and writing. Just yesterday, I was facing challenging ‘new content’, and sat staring at the blank page. Nothing. I typed, “Blank Page Syndrome……….”. As soon as I saw those words, it was like the page was taunting me. And I wasn’t having it. So I wrote…and finished the chapter! Synchronicity, that I read your post this morning. I don’t feel so alone. 🙂
Great insights! thank you.
Very helpful.
Kirsti, congratulations on your new book and podcast. Thank you for reminding us to look at our situations with fresh glasses on. It can open new pathways!
Thank you, Kirsti, for “I write exceptional books because of interruptions.” I appreciate your model of the extreme positive as a statement of truth. Self-talk like “I will write more garbage when I can” doesn’t measure up. 🙂
These are really good tips. Can’t wait to see your book out!
These are really great tips. I can’t wait to see your book out!
These are great tips. Can’t wait to see your book out!
Congratulations Kirsti and thank you for Reformo! I read lots of books, thanks to your suggestions. I had ideas that escaped. Yesterday-yes, waiting until the last minute- I sat down and wrote a draft I’d been pondering for a month or so. Looking at the positives due to the pandemic certainly helps. Our hearts ache but we can write!
Thank you, Kirsti, for some great tips to get back into the creative flow in the midst of a pandemic!
Thank you for the perspective you put on dealing with these difficult times, and how changing the narrative, turned a minus to a plus. Your suggestion of just writing for five minutes as a way of getting unstuck is one I will add to my strategies. Congrats on the book.
Thank you for the reminder to just sit down and write. I will also try the mantras!
Oh and, I can’t wait to read your book!
Thank you!
Thanks for the reminder that if we look hard enough we can find good in almost any situation.
Thanks for sharing your wise advice, Kristi! I agree—“just” getting started is the first step to being unstuck.
Can’t wait to read your book!
Thank you for this post. I have read it a few times now, and it is a good reminder to help me keep going.
Great tips, Kirsti, and congrats on book #2!
Thank you for the inspiration that so many of us need right now! My favorite thought you wrote down recently was “I write exceptional books because of interruptions.” I can relate 🙂 Congrats on your second book!! Whoo-hoo!!
Thanks for the new mindset. Oh, to change the narrative and turn unproductive moments into writing ones which be brilliant.
Timely advice. Thank you.
Thank you for this timely advice.
Thank you for the great advice and interview, Kirsti!
Thank you for the advice during this challenging time. Love the cover for your newest book!!
Meooooow, oh wow! Congratulations on your latest book Kristi.
Thank you for the positive post!
Thank you, Kirsti, for your generous heart and for all you do for the kidlit writing community.
Love your ideas for getting un-stuck! Thanks for the encouragement.
OMG, “Writing comes easily when my house is full of people.” would be a REVOLUTIONARY thing to convince myself of.
I love your simple but sensible way to get unstuck- just start writing! Thank you.
Thank you for the great tips. Much needed! I only seem to keep revising and revising. Also, I loved ReFoReMo–my first time participating this year. Thank you for all you do, and congrats on COW SAYS MEOW!!
Thanks for taking the time to offer these suggestions and ideas. I will definitely have to check out the Picture Book Look podcast.
Thanks for reminding us that we CAN and WILL write wonderful books during all the changes we’ve undergone this past year.
Thank you for sharing your unsticking tips!
Thanks for this post, it’s really inspirational to see all the different threads you are pulling together. I’m often overwhelmed by how much I feel I have to juggle, and my mind feels like a piled up trestle table of ideas. Thanks for your clarity and ‘can-do’ attitude!
Yes, our lives are so different nowadays because of the pandemic! I find it harder to find time to write with my family members at home since they may want to talk with me at any given time. Thanks for the inspirational tips.
Great tips, Kirsti! I especially like changing mindset idea. Such a simple shift yet it could be challenging some days.
Thank you for sharing!
I am excited to listen to your podcast! Thank you for the encouraging post!
Thank you Kirsti for this inspiring post! Love the idea of how we can retrain (and reframe) our brain and change our narrative! There is always an opportunity to carve out a little time – no matter how little it may be!. Congratulations on your books and podcast!
I love these ideas. Thanks! So far, I’ve shaken 2020’s lack of writing off, and it’s been a very productive 2021. I’ll incorporate these into my daily writing. I look forward to checking out your podcast.
Hi Kristi- Thank you for sharing your journey during the pandemic. I have enjoyed the time with my daughter as well. I have loved and been inspired by the 12X12 to write. I have read alot of PB books and written a new story each month. Life is getting better all the time.
Thank you. I am often filled with Thoughts and excuses for not writing… so many ideas and I just need to take the 5 minutes to write them down… then The challenge is to string them together into a cohesive story… that’s when I do feel most unstuck!! Thank you!!
Excellent suggestions for revving up the creative spirit. I also love the title of your book and have adapted it when I sing The Farmer in the Dell to my two and a half-year-old grandson. He laughs hysterically when I say the cow says meow. Then he adds, “No, No,No. Moo.”
We can all definitely relate to this post!
Kristi, thanks for some great tips. It certainly has been a different year, but we are resilient, and making the best of it. Congratulations to your daughter and son on their graduations. And congrats to you on your podcast and book. I look forward to reading it. Happy spring!
Thank you for the encouraging words, Kirsti. I find that just forcing words out helps me too! =)
I love your way of turning a potential negative into a positive. I read your words at the exact time I needed to hear them. Thank you and so excited to read your book!
Airplane mode!!!!! Duh! Yes!
I discovered yourpodcast a little while ago, Kirsti, and have been enjoying it. A pandemic win. Thank you.
Words from the wise, and they will be taken to heart. Even though we are more than a year into this pandemic, there are still new challenges to be overcome and, thankfully, new ways to tackle them. Thanks Kirsti!
And I can’t wait to read Cows!!
Thanks for these tips – definitely new and not intuitive! I look forward to checking out your new podcast, too.
Thanks for sharing your words of wisdom and inspiration! Happy book release day this month!!
Thank you Kristi for giving me a new way to look at things. Very helpful.
Great advice! Thanks, Kirsti! And congrats on your books! They sound perfect for my preschool storytimes. I’m looking forward to reading them and also checking out your podcast! 🙂
It is so important to keep writing. When I’m feeling stuck and my brain is too full of chaos I set a timer for 30 minutes and just write. Anything, everything, brain dump ideas, worries, anxieties, whatever. Keep that pen moving and the ink flowing. Thanks for the reminder and the positive self-encouragement ideas.
Thank you Kirsti!
For me, Pandemic has helped my writing. I’ve been home more and less on-the-go. But it’s just hubby and me and he’s really supportive of my time to write. Like a couple of others, though I struggle with self-doubt, comparison and imposter syndrome, so this post is helpful for me in those areas! Thanks for your tips and kind thoughts about changing our narrative!
Thank you for sharing!
I’m impressed how focused you’ve been on accomplishing new projects during this pandemic. Sometimes I too have focused, other times, not so much. But I keep trying!
I do like changing the narrative–interrupt the negative self-talk with self-love! Thank you.
Good Luck with your project it looks amazing!
The messages we tell ourselves make all the difference. Thank you for reminding me. I enjoy your podcast, PBLOOK
Sue
I’ve learned over the years that there are certain routines that work for me when writing, when revising, when drawing, when creating color art. Mostly, I’m good with channeling what works. But when my usual routines aren’t possible (can’t go to a coffee shop to write in a pandemic! can’t do my sketching while watching baseball when the season’s so much shorter!)) it’s powerful to be reminded that *I* have the power to establish new routines. What’s worked in the past isn’t the only thing that can work. Thanks for the pep talk, Kirsti!
I love podcasts and am always looking for new ones to inspire me … so excited to check out Picture Book Look!
It’s amazing that you’ve done so much this year – I myself have often been more in the stuck category, with occasional glimmers of my creative self. I love all of these tips! The last one may resonate with me the most. I tend to be an overthinker and have to remind myself to just do it already. Write anything and stop worrying about it so much, whether it’s what I “should” be writing or if I “should” be doing something else.
I really appreciate that you shared “my feet are cold”. Often when I just need to get started it sounds like that, and I feel silly. Your post reminded me that it’s not silly at all. It’s just part of the process. Thank you!
I listened to your own interview on Picture Book Look last weekend while pruning one of my apple trees. Kinda funny interviewing yourself (kind of..)
I love onomatopoeia, kids love onomatopoeia! Good luck with your book!
Thanks so much, Kirsti! I especially like the idea of changing your narrative–I’m definitely going to try that. Thank you!
This is a great reminder to keep with the practice and habit of writing, even when it feels tough. The magic is in the doing it!
Thank you Kristi for your encouraging post. Much continued success to you.
Thank you, Kirsti! I’m so in alignment with this post. I love the the affirmations and the whole idea of finding the gift in those seemingly adversarial experiences.
Thanks for these ideas and inspiration, Kirsti!
Thank you for this! I have also been struggling with not being alone in my house for over a year. With a 5-year-old needing help with virtual kindergarten and a one-year-old born right after the pandemic began, this year has been a whirlwind for me. But seeing how fast my kids are growing and spending so much time with them have also inspired and pushed me to really want to create for them, too! Thank you so much for the advice. I will definitely be working more on creating a positive narrative and and writing things down/making art no matter what.
Thank you so much for your post! Changing your inner dialogue certainly resonated with me and the idea of ‘giving myself permission to write’ almost outlandish! These 2 things are my personal stumbling blocks and I truly thanks you for highlighting these issues.
I like your positive attitude, Kristi! I’m going to add a post-it note to my work area that says, “I am an exceptional writer.” Then believe it!
Thanks Kristi! While the pandemic has been really challenging in some ways, I have actually been more creative because of fewer distractions. I totally agree with your point about changing your perspective. I find that helpful in all aspects of my life and always try to adopt a glass is half full mindset. Congratulations on your new book!
Thank you, Kirsti! Recognizing that our thoughts can have a huge impact on our writing success and how to combat negative thoughts into winning ones is a wonderful technique. You’ve inspired me to practice this daily before I write.
Thank you, Kirsti, for you insights and encouragement, and for your support of the writing community.
Thank you, Kristi. Intentions and affirmations are so helpful in creating a positive mindset…. and your suggestions on how to write under less than ideal conditions are a reminder, actually of how lucky we are to have the distractions we do of a place to live with family around us.
This is great advice even outside of the pandemic and all the craziness of the past year. Thank you for a thoughtful post on counting our blessings and keeping ourselves grounded.
Thanks for the tips, Kirsti! It’s really easy to use the pandemic as an excuse for not being creative. I’m also excited to check out your podcast! I hope it continues to go well. 🙂
March went too fast and too slow for me, and I narrowed what I attempted to what was most important. It was really encouraging and helpful to read your thoughts about changing your narrative. It works! Thank you!
Can’t wait to hear the podcast! Congrats on all the new books!
Short sweet and simple just how I love to read my children’s books. This is such a fantastic reminder and tip to keep us writing. I will remember these words when I’m not writing a little bit goes a long way. Thank you!
Thanks for the encouraging tips and insight!
Kirsti, I completely agree with this! Instead of using the pandemic as an excuse, it’s important to try to look at the positive of being “stuck at home.” Wonderfully written, thank you.
Thanks for the encouragement. I’ve been stuck lately.
Thanks, Kristi, for the great advice. I totally agree that your positive spin on anything is what will turn it around.